veteran nollywood actress and publisher speaks on intimacy before marriage leads to cheating
Toyo Baby disclosed that engaging in such an intimate act would lead to infidelity during marriage especially for people who have had multiple partners. She added this will leave people comparing their partner’s strength in bed with one another.
The screen diva further disclosed that she is not saying it wrong but people should just learn to keep themselves till they are married.
Toyo said: “Intimacy before marriage makes relationship more complicated. Some ladies date more than five men before marriage and sleep with all of them because they see it as a norm or a way to prove their love against God’s standard. I personally believe that there is a lot to it than the pleasure it gives. It makes you become one with the person. It ties you with the person, such that when you marry you compare your previous intimate life with your present and the memories of how you did it with the other person won’t leave you, expecting more from your husband or wife, forgetting that we are all not the same and our intimate lives can’t be the same as well. That’s what leads to cheating in marriage. Some men or women can’t imagine been faithful to just one person because they’ve done it with several people in their past or before marriage so it’s difficult. Research has it and I learnt that if you do it with a particular person if you meet the person years after and you’re alone or whatever, it is very possible that you will do it again. It is good, don’t get me wrong, I mean God created it and everything He made is good and beautiful but before marriage is what makes it bad and wrong and doing it with anyone else apart from your husband or wife in marriage is bad as well.”
Nollywood actress Lizzy Anjorin recently dished out important advice to women concerning men cheating in a relationship. She also pointed out that a man cheating in a marriage is not strong enough excuse for the woman to quit. (Naij)